My apologies to the Bard but around now there will be many many parents of year 5 children making that very decision. Of course the vast majority of testing is non-negotiable. SATs, GCSEs, these are inevitable in our society where government bodies seem to believe that testing is the only way to assure teachers are doing there job. Our children are amongst the most tested in the world. But here, in Kent, unlike many other areas, we also have that one test we can opt into, or out of, the Kent Test (or 11+ as it's known in some areas).
For some the decision is a simple one. Some children are assured to fly through the test, in the certain knowledge that if their nerves fail them their books are so beautiful that an appeal would be sure to succeed. Some are clearly neither or a temperament, or maybe ability, to cope with grammar school.
But a lot fall into that borderline zone, their teachers will have used words like maybe, possibly, with lots of practise...
So how do you decide if your child is one of this large group?
I'd suggest asking yourself:
Why do I want my child to take the test?
Which school would be our ideal? What is special about that school?
Would my child be better as a big fish in a small pool or do they need competition to produce their best?
How would my child cope with a train/bus journey?
How stressful will my child find the test?
How will my child feel if they don't pass?
What is plan B?
View as many schools as you can. Get a feel for what each offers and how they might suit your child. Reassure your child that there are good schools to be had whether or not they pass the test. Ensure your child sees the test as a chance to showcase their ability, rather than something to fear, help your child understand that they are so much more than a set of test results and that their worth lies in who they are not where they go to school, consider relaxation techniques that might suit your child and above all be proud of them. We will be offering extra sessions throughout the last 2 weeks of August to cover test technique and will be running sessions where the children can practise under test conditions.
We are hugely proud of our students, both those opting to take the test and those who have chosen otherwise. If you are undecided and want to talk through the pro's and cons, please don't hesitate to contact us.